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Who Are You My Beloved?

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After watching a series of Iyanla Fix My Life episodes I felt compelled to write a post about who I am as a woman. Have I truly explored that question? Who is Aisha? I have all these parts that make up the whole but what is the whole? Let's break it down by the parts first. A part of me is:

1. A wife
2. A mom
3. A daughter
4. A sister

These positions in life add to who I am. Now WHO AM I at my core? Here is what I am discovering:

I am a woman who has a great deal of love and respect for Jehovah God. This is the biggest part of who I am. How I move in life, whether it be spiritually,  physically,  emotionally or mentally, is wrapped up in my relationship with Jehovah.
I am a woman who cares about the well being of others and is moved to help where necessary. I do not like to be overbearing and I am very sensitive to others feelings. I am observant and intuitive. At times I can be proactive and at other times I can be reactive and I am okay with that. I am a woman that loves a movie that will make me cry. I am a woman that enjoys uplifting other women. I love hugs and cuddles. I am not big on fashion - I wear whatever looks good on me. I don't put up with foolishness and I will call someone out for it when necessary and tactfully. I am very talented artistically. I am a singer. I am  a writer.  I am a poet. I am art. I feel words and emotions and I speak truth. Being apart of a thriving family makes me happy. I enjoy the simple things like the feel of a summer's night on my skin. I have to listen to music with my eyes closed so I can feel the song. My strongest sense is touch. I love LOVE and I love to laugh. I am strong and wise beyond my years.

I am still discovering who I am daily and it is quite the experience. I am excited to see what else I can find! I truly believe that self reflection is important. We have to keep that connection with self active because the pressure of life can cause us to lose ourselves in it. Stay connected!

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