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As you all know, my son is 2. I will be 28 this year and my womb is feeling pretty empty. I keep going back and forth with having another baby, but I think what happened today made up my mind.

Desi and I were playing at the park today. It was gorgeous outside--"sunny day," as Desi would say. So anyway, we climbed mountains, we went fishing, we threw bouncy balls around and we had a race. Desi soon got tired of all that and he just wanted to swing. We went all the way to outer space(the swing was his spaceship)!!! Once we landed, he ran around a little as I sat and watched him. Okay, all of that was cool. I was minding my business a little while Desi played. I happened to look up and noticed that Desi was pushing his little plastic car in the swing! Just pushing away as if it were a little child just like him. I literally just shook my head and said to myself, "Yeah, he needs a brother or sister." That so confirmed it for me. My poor baby needs somebody that will always be with him.

I wonder what the hubby will say? LOL! Okay Motherhood, do you think baby #2 is mandatory? Speak your minds. Tell me how ya feel out there! LOL!

Night Night!

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  1. SimoneApril 17, 2013 at 10:11 AM

    Aaaw that is so sweet. Baby #2 is optional, but with the way your feeling, im sure it feels mandatory. "Count the cost" of course then go for it! Lol

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    1. AishaApril 17, 2013 at 12:20 PM

      Yeah, you are definitely right about counting the cost! We shall see...

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