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Okay, so I am pretty new to this blogging thing. I have been wondering why I haven't had any traffic on my blog posts. I was starting to wonder if the whole world thought I was boring! Anyway, I figured it out.

My little bambino is 6 months old now! My how time flys! He is at this point where he is really clingy. I can hardly get anything done around the house. I am also having a problem getting him to sleep on his own. I often have to lay down with him and nurse him to sleep. I love nursing, but I would like for him to soothe himself to sleep. I have been given a pleathora of suggestions and have tried them. I really don't like the "cry out" method. Every baby is different and my son cannot handle crying it out. He looks so anxious when I just leave him in his bassinet or crib. I can't just ignore that. I have been reading what others think about it on the web and some say "cry out" is the best way to go. Others say it is cruel or it doesn't work. I don't think it is cruel, but I do think that it is not helpful for baby. I mean, a baby is used to being held. He has been held in the belly for 9 months. Why should that change now that he is out in the world? I know a child has to learn to grow in their own space, but I don't know about making him cry for long periods of time in that space. If anyone has any suggestions for me, I would greatly appreciate it. Please comment to this blog.
Okay, on another note, I was checking out this site that was promoting a book called "Prince Or Princess? Choosing Your Baby's Gender Before Conception." It was written by a midwife. I was actually discussing this very topic with 1 of my friends a few months ago. She swears by it! She tried it with her second and got her girl! It teaches you how to choose the gender of your baby. There is no medication involved. Everything is natural. This book goes over specific foods the mom-to-be should eat to have a boy or girl, it goes over different sexual positions that will produce a boy or girl, etc. It's a credible site. I plan to buy the book whenever my husband and I decide to have our second child (we would like a girl). Feel free to check out the site by CLICKING HERE .

Alright, I gotta go. Doodie calls! Sleep tight all.

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